Catalyst Quotes

Compiled by Alex Pena ~ ‘Catalyst’: “to spark, to ignite, energize, mobilize; something that accelerates a reaction (DDI)." Thought-provoking & motivational quotes and stories for you to read, reflect on and move forward in making creative and positive changes in your life.

Archive for the category “Challenges”

“Waiting for a Magical Day? Pick a Path with Heart”

 

“We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.”         (Joseph Campbell)

 

 

“I know what it’s like.  I’ve seen it played out a zillion times.  You’re waiting for that magical day when someone makes the connection and recognizes who you really are.  Maybe they’ll first catch the sparkle in your eye.  Or perhaps they’ll marvel at your insights and the depth of your spirit. Someone who will help you connect the dots, believe in yourself, and make sense of it all. Someone who will understand you, approve of you, and unhesitatingly give you a leg up so that life can pluck your ready, ripened self from the branch of magnificence.  Well, I’m here to tell you, your wait is over.  That someone, is you.”     (‘Notes from the Universe,’ ©Mike Dooley)

 

 

“Every positive change — every jump to a higher level of energy and awareness — involves a rite of passage.  Each time to ascend to a higher rung on the ladder of personal evolution, we must go through a period of discomfort, of initiation.  I have never found an exception.”    (Dan Millman)

 

 

“Success on any major scale requires you to accept responsibility . . .  In the final analysis, the one quality that all successful people have is the ability to take on responsibility.”       (Michael Korda)

 

 

“All paths are the same, leading nowhere.  Therefore, pick a path with heart!  . . . Look at every path closely and deliberately, then ask ourselves this crucial question:  Does this path have a heart?  If it does, then the path is good.  If it doesn’t, it is of no use.”        (Carlos Castaneda)

 

“Fear? Take Personal Responsibility”

 

“Only fear can defeat life… it goes for your weakest spot, which it finds with unerring ease.  It begins in your mind, always… nestles in your memory like a gangrene: it seeks to rot everything, even the words with which to speak of it… if your fear becomes a wordless darkness that you avoid, perhaps even manage to forget, you open yourself to further attacks of fear because you never truly fought the opponent who defeated you.”       (Yann Martel, author, ‘Life of Pi’)

 

 

“The most destructive element in the human mind is fear.  Fear creates aggressiveness….fear grows in darkness; if you think there’s a bogeyman around, turn on the light….only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live.”           (Dorothy Thompson)

 

 

“We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when adults are afraid of the light.”           (Plato)

 

 

“One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living.  We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon – instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today.”      (Dale Carnegie)

 

 

“All of us are born with a set of instinctive fears – of falling, of the dark, of lobsters, of falling on lobsters in the dark, or speaking before a Rotary Club, and of the words, ‘Some Assembly Required’.”         (Dave Barry)

 

 

“You must take personal responsibility.  You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself.”         (Jim Rohn)

 

“Life Isn’t Fair – What Are You Doing About It?”

“Life isn’t fair.  Whatever hits the fan certainly won’t be evenly distributed.  The best approach to dealing with things that cannot be changed is to accept them.  The worst thing we can do is to succumb to the Victimitis Virus and “awfulize” the situation by throwing pity parties in Pity City.  When the doo-doo starts to pile deep, a leader doesn’t just sit there and complain (usually about ‘them’); he or she grabs a shovel.  We may not choose what happens to us, but we do choose how to respond – or not.”    (Jim Clemmer, “Accept What Can’t Be Changed and Change What Can Be”)

 

 

“God grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked anyway, the good fortune to run into the ones I do, and the eyesight to tell the difference.    Amen.”       (Author Unknown)

 

 

“This is the art of courage:  to see things as they are and still believe that the victory lies not with those who avoid the bad, but those who taste, in living awareness, every drop of the good.”      (Victoria Lincoln)

 

 

“Note how good you feel after you have encouraged someone else. No other argument is necessary to suggest that never miss the opportunity to give encouragement.”      (George Burton Adams)

 

 

“I’m ready to own my own power, to say ‘This is who I am.’  If you like, you like it.  And if you don’t, you don’t.  So watch out, I’m gonna fly.”      (Oprah Winfrey)

“You Rock”

 

 The Big 5

1)    Listen.  (Show Respect; Learn)

2)    Ask.  (Solicit, Engage, Inspire)

3)    Thank.  (Appreciate, Acknowledge)

4)    Apologize.  (Rectify, Build)

5)    Practice thoughtfulness.  (A way of life.  A staple of ‘good business.’)            (Tom Peters)

 

 

“Rarely does one find the quick fix, the big win, or a home run looking forward on the horizon of time.  Yet when they do their best, one day at a time, while thinking of their dreams and not the ‘hows,’ looking back they find that the quick fixes, big wins, and home runs found them.”        (‘Notes From the Universe,’ ©Mike Dooley, http://www.tut.com)

 

 

 “You rock!    

This is deceptive.  You don’t rock all the time.  No one does.  No one is a rock star, superstar, world-changing artist all the time.  In fact, it’s a self-defeating goal.  You can’t do it. 

No, but you might rock five minutes a day. 

Five minutes to write a blog post that changes everything, or five minutes to deliver an act of generosity that changes someone.  Five minutes to invent a great new feature, or five minutes to teach a groundbreaking skill in a way that no one ever thought of before.  Five minutes to tell the truth (or hear the truth).

Five minutes a day you might do exceptional work, remarkable work, work that matters.  Five minutes a day you might defeat the “lizard brain” long enough to stand up and make a difference.

And five minutes of rocking would be enough, because it would be five minutes more than just about anyone else.”            (Seth Godin)

 

“Dreaming and Doing”

 

“If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be.  Now put the foundations under them.”       (Henry David Thoreau)

 

 “If someone says ‘can’t, that shows you what to do.”       (John Cage)

 

 “You must take personal responsibility.  You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself.”        (Jim Rohn)

 

 “We are made wise not by the recollection of our past, but by the responsibility for our future.”       (George Bernard Shaw)

 

“Some people dream of worthy accomplishments, others stay awake and do them.”       (Unknown Source)

 

“A Leader is the Servant”

 

“Leaders lead.  Is that too simple?

Writers write.  If you want to be a writer, write. 

And be sure to have people read what you write.

And leaders?  Leaders lead.       

If you want to be a leader, go lead.”       (Seth Godin)

 

 

“The climb to the top is arduous and long.  People become exhausted, frustrated and disenchanted. They often are tempted to give up.  Leaders must encourage the heart of their followers to carry on.

People do not start their work each day with a desire to lose.  It is part of the leader’s job to show them that they can win.”       (Kouses & Posner, The Leadership Challenge)

 

 

“Flatter me, and I may not believe you. 

Criticize me, and I may not like you. 

Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. 

Encourage me, and I may not forget you.”       (William Arthur)

 

 

“The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality.  The last is to say thank you.  In between, the leader is the servant.”       (Max DePree, Leadership is an Art)

 

“Hear – See – Do”

 

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”          (Theodore Roosevelt)

 

 

“Being responsible sometimes means pissing people off.”       (General Colin Powell)

 

 

It is my daily mood that makes the weather.  I possess tremendous power to make life miserable or joyous.  I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration; I can humiliate or humor, hurt or heal.  In all situations, it is my response that decides whether a crisis is escalated or de-escalated, and a person is humanized or de-humanized.  If we treat people as they are, we make them worse.  If we treat people as they ought to be, we help them become what they are capable of becoming.”       (J. W. Goethe)

 

 

“You have your brush, you have your colors, you paint paradise, then in you go.”       (Nikos Kazantzakis)

 

  

“I hear and I forget.  I see and I remember.  I do and I understand.”           (Confucius)

“Vision or Hallucination?”

 

“Not everyone you influence will think the same way you do.  You have to help them not only believe that they can succeed, but also show them that you want them to succeed.  How do you do that?

  •  Expect it:  People can sense your underlying attitude no matter what you say or do.  If you have  an expectation for your people to be successful, they will know it.
  • Verbalize it:  People need to hear you tell them that you believe in them and want them to succeed.  Become a positive prophet of their success.
  • Reinforce it:  You can never do too much when it comes to believing in people.

Once people recognize and understand that you genuinely want to see them succeed and are committed to helping them, they will begin to believe they can accomplish what you give them to do.”       (John C. Maxwell, Becoming a Person of Influence)

 

 

“Tell me and I forget.  Show me and I remember.  Let me do and I understand.”       (Confucius)

 

 

“Vision without execution is hallucination.”       (Thomas Edison)

 

“Alter Your Attitudes, Alter Your Lives”

“My whole life is waiting for the questions to which I have prepared answers.”       (Tom Stoppard)

 

 

“Don’t spend your precious time asking ‘Why isn’t the world a better place?’  It will only be time wasted.  The question to ask is ‘How can I make it better?’  To that there is an answer.”       (Leo Buscaglia)

 

 

“The real tragedy of life is not that each of us doesn’t have enough strengths, it’s that we fail to use the ones we have.”       (Marcus Buckhingham and Donald O. Clifton, Now Discover Your Strengths)

 

 

“Some favorite expressions of small children:

‘It’s not my fault. . . They made me do it. . . I forgot.’ 

Some favorite expressions of adults:

‘It’s not my job. . . No one told me. . . It couldn’t be helped.’

True freedom begins and ends with personal accountability.”       (Dan Zadra)

 

 

“The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitude of mind.”       (William James)

 

“Crisis = Danger & Opportunity”

“Just don’t pretend that your choices don’t have consequences, and please don’t whine when you are held accountable for your choices. If you don’t like the consequence, make a different choice next time.

The world I live in is not void of consequences. You are free to behave as if the world you live in is inert, but please don’t expect me to collude with your delusion because that would be a disservice to both of us.

You really can do whatever you want to do, and you really are responsible for your choices. Ignorance is not an excuse. (Bret L. Simmons)

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“We all know people who, under duress, throw up their hands and cry, ‘How can this be happening to me?’ Such people see themselves as victims, and living through hardship carries no lessons for them. But resilient people devise constructs about their suffering to create some sort of meaning for themselves and others.” (Diane L. Coutu, Harvard Business Review)

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“When written in Chinese, the word ‘crisis’ is composed of two characters — one represents danger and the other represents opportunity.” (John F. Kennedy)

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