“Find the Unspeakable Fear and Speak It.”
“Don’t believe everything you think.” (Bryon Katie)
“What if every ‘no’” meant ‘not yet’?
Every setback meant, ‘there’s something way better’?
Every loss meant, ‘even more is on the way’?
And every disappointment meant, ‘pucker up, buttercup’?
Yeah, precisely. (signed) The Universe” (Notes from the Universe, Mike Dooley, February 17, 2017
“Your complaints, your drama, your victim mentality, your whining, your blaming, and all of your excuses have NEVER gotten you even a single step closer to your goals or dreams.” (Steve Maraboli)
“Sometimes life just walks up to you, excuses itself and punches you in the face.” (Mike Kunda)
“You always do what you want to do. This is true with every act. You may say that you had to do something, or that you were forced to, but actually, whatever you do, you do by choice. Only you have the power to choose for yourself.” (W. Clement Stone)
“I’m afraid of that.
If you can say this out loud, when you’ve been holding back, avoiding your confrontation with the truth, you will free yourself to do something important. Saying it takes away the power of the fear.
On the other hand, if you say it 8 times or 11 times or every time, you’re using the label to reinforce your fear, creating an easy escape hatch to avoid doing something important. Saying it amplifies the fear.
The brave thing is to find the unspeakable fear and speak it. And to stop rehearsing the easy fears that have become habits.” (Seth Godin, Seth’s Blog, 7.11.15)